Saturday, May 29, 2010

Its been a month

Brian and I have been married for a little over a month now and things seem so hectic still. We still barely see each other because of our work schedules. We have really made an effort on our time off to say no friends right now, we need to focus the little time we have together on our marriage and spending time together. W

It is hard in the summer to be alone just the two of us because we own a condo and boat on one of the nicest lakes in North Carolina. I have taken off work every Friday in the summer that Brian is off. I have doent his because at least on Friday's our friends are all at work which means we absolutly get to spend time together.

Marriage is the best that has ever happened to me. There have been a few things come up that we knew would come eventually that came almost immediately after we got married. During these times when things have been harder than I ever expected it was so nice to have my husband by my side saying this is going to be okay. We are going to get through this, you are strong enough to do this. Now, when Brian was my boyfriend, and my fiance he was very supportive and stood by my side but having a husband is so different. A husband is with you, has committed to you, and has promised to be by your side through good times and bad 'till death do you part. This commitment makes facing hard things so much easier.

I am FINALLY, MRS. JOHNSON!!!